Counseling for Compulsive Sexual Behaviors

Something Has
to Change.

If your sexual behaviors feel out of control and you think you're ready for change, counseling can help. This is a non-judgmental space for you to be radically honest — with your therapist and with yourself.

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Where to Begin

What Brings
People Here

If you're reading this, you've probably already tried to change on your own. More than once. And it hasn't worked. If any of this sounds familiar, you're in the right place:

You feel out of control of your sexual behaviors, even when you want to stop
You feel as though your sexual urges are stronger than you are
Your sexual behavior has negative consequences — in your relationships, your work, your finances, or your sense of self — but you can't seem to change it on your own
Your problematic sexual behavior is escalating
You've felt stuck in shame and guilt
You're exhausted by living a double life
You want to be honest with someone, but don't know where to start

The Work

What You Can Expect

Compulsive sexual behavior — in some cases conceptualized as sex addiction — isn't just about what you're doing. It's also about what's underlying the behaviors, what you are really trying to satisfy through the behaviors, and the harms that the behavior causes you and others. The goal of therapy in this area isn't to shame you or judge you: it's to help you understand your behavioral patterns and what underlies them — so you can change.

Working through compulsive sexual behavior can be difficult. Sessions are supportive, but direct. You will be asked hard questions. You will be expected to engage honestly in service of your own recovery. You may also be asked to supplement therapy with group therapy and peer-led support groups.

If you are ready to see change in this area of your life, then this is where you belong.

Areas of Focus

What We Address

Compulsive pornography use

Compulsive use of other forms of digital sexual services (e.g., chat rooms, sex-oriented apps, etc.)

Infidelity and repeated relationship betrayals

Sexual behavior that conflicts with your own values

Shame and secrecy cycles that sustain the behavior

Rebuilding honesty, integrity, and trust — with yourself and others

How It Works

How Four Pillars Works

Where We Serve

Four Pillars Counseling serves clients in Texas and Arkansas. Texas clients are seen exclusively via HIPAA-compliant video. Arkansas clients throughout the state are also seen via HIPAA-compliant video — and clients in the Bella Vista and Bentonville area have the additional option of meeting in person.

How Sessions Work

Sessions are structured but always flexible enough to accommodate your unique situation and needs.

The First Step

The first step is a free 20-minute consultation call. No commitment. No pressure. Just an honest conversation about whether this is the right fit.

Schedule Your Consultation

Change is possible —
and it begins here.

The consultation call is 20 minutes. It's a chance to briefly describe what's going on, ask questions, and determine whether we're a good fit. Use the scheduler below to book a time.

Something Hasto Change.